How parent should not violate the rights that the child ‘should have’
Being a ‘parent’ is an ‘opportunity in life’ for us to take care of another person with love and care. Of course, each home has a different way of raising a child based on the learning and experience that parents have accumulated since childhood. However, parents may not realize that raising and caring for their children may not always be the right thing to do, such as inappropriate or overly expressive displays of love for their children. This can make your child feel confused and embarrassed when faced with this kind of situation frequently, and it may also affect your child’s mental state in the long run. So if you are a parent or are about to become a new parent. You need to know how to be a parent that will make your child feel comfortable and ensure that you’re not violating your child’s rights. Let’s go and see!
1. Parents need to teach their children to respect the rights of their bodies and others
No matter who we are or what role we are in but we all have in common is the right to our own body that others can’t infringe or hurt us, even our blood relatives like family members. However, we often see it in the newspapers or online that it is often the family that does not respect the child’s body rights. Whether intentional bodily harm physical contact or even attempted sexual harassment. Which children rarely have the opportunity to resist or reject because they were always taught that the family did this out of love and concern. Therefore, to prevent the child from having to face this situation as a father and mother, you should teach your children that they have rights in their bodies. Always reject and resist when they feel others are threatening and trying to touch private areas of the body or intending to hurt them. You also need to teach your child to respect other people’s body rights as well.
2. Parents who show their love for their children within limits
Of course, ‘showing love’ to your child is one of the processes in building bonds between family members. It also affects the child’s long-term development. However, some parents have a way of showing their love for their child way too much, such as trying to hug and kiss their baby’s various parts, even the chest or genitals. Children may be confused about whether this is another form of affection or attempted sexual abuse. Therefore, what parents should do is not to show their love to their children by touching the body on the fragile and sensitive areas of the body such as the lips, breasts, genitals, buttocks. So the child will then understand that touching these areas is not the right expression of affection and that they will no longer allow anyone to do this to their body.
3. Parents who don’t force their children to be skin shipped by family members or others if they don’t want
Most of the children’s outward appearances tend to be cute and lovable in the eyes of adults. Sometimes when they have to meet relatives or other people, children tend to be embraced, kissed, or skinship in different ways because they want to show their affection to the child. Moreover, sometimes it is the father and mother who invite relatives or outsiders to hug the child without asking the child’s feelings or asking permission first. At this point, what parents should do is not force their children to be skin shipped by family members or others if they don’t want to. And need to ask permission from them first every time. They must also be taught to reject when they feel uncomfortable.
4. Parents who do not take personal pictures of their children on social media
When we are in the online world where posting anything on social media will be shared immediately. Therefore, it is necessary to think carefully whenever you want to share something. It may result in more damage than you thought. Nowadays, many parents like to post pictures of their children on social media. They sometimes post personal photos, such as pictures of their baby showering or pictures of children when they’re not wearing clothes. These images should not be shared on social media from the beginning because there may be people who wish to save them. And the image may be stuck online forever. This is a great way if parents want to post pictures of their children. Should always ask for the consent of the child first.
Being a parent who has to take care of one’s life until one grows up. Of course, along the way, it will not always be as smooth as expected, as they still had to face many challenges and obstacles that had to try to adapt. Therefore, the parent should respect the rights of children, have self-improvement, and learn from mistakes. This is to ensure that the child gets the best from them and continues to grow up to be a happy adult.
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